Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts

Saturday 2 January 2021

JOYFUL DAYS

 

Gone is that joyful day

When we stood before Go

Humble in his presence

And we were joined as one

Everything ahead of us

 

Gone are those joyful days

Full of love and laughter

Days of tender moments

And heady nights of passion

Everything ahead of us

 

Gone are those joyful days

When we walked the shoreline

Sunlight glinting on the water

Walking hand in hand

Happy and carefree,

Everything ahead of us

 

Gone are those joyful days

When God blessed our union

Delivering joy into our lives

As our little family grew

And we had everything we desired

 

Gone are those joyful days

When your smile lit up my life

And filled my heart with love

Before it was broken in two

And you were still here with us

 

Gone are the joyful days

Since you have gone before me

And you are now at Gods side

So, I will miss you until the day

When God reunites us

 

I look forward to that joyful day

When we stand again together

But though my heart is broken

I must delay our reunion

Because our children need me

And I must love them double now


Sunday 22 January 2017

The Girl in the Maternity Dress

Holly walked around the lounge talking to the customers as was her usual habit.
She had a less graceful gait than she used to but Steve still felt a great sense of pride that he was her husband and Holly was pregnant, very pregnant.
It was two years since they had met and she had changed the course of his life entirely.

It was Christmas again and Steve Berry had always had a dislike for it, despite all the jollity.
Unlike many of his Christmas mad friends he’d had no happy Christmas memories to anesthetise him against the season.
His childhood Christmases were memories he would rather have forgotten.
So he never trusted Christmas, he believed that shit lurked beneath the coloured lights and paper chains.
That was until Holly Davis opened his eyes to new possibilities and he realised that Christmas could also magnify joy and Steve had been cured of his Christmas phobia.

Due to Holly, Steve had found himself working behind the bar in her Uncle Phil’s pub, the Pig and Whistle.
He was still, even to that day uncertain quite how she managed to affect that, but affect it she did and during the ten days working for her she had turned his life upside down and it culminated in him wishing her a Merry Christmas and kissing her at closing time.
He had thought the kiss on Christmas Eve might be the start of something.
Judging by the way Holly responded to it but it didn’t lead anywhere immediately.
Holly had responded to his advance and in fact had been hopeful of it but she knew it was far too soon to throw caution to the wind.
The effects of the kiss proved to be a slow burner which didn’t burst into flames until the early hours of New Year’s Day

The two years since had been very eventful, they became partners in January, engaged at Easter and Married in September.
However it wasn’t only Steve and Holly’s fortunes that had changed over the preceding two years since they had met but so had those of the Pig and Whistle.
It had gone from a rundown dive to a thriving pub with a growing reputation as a gastro pub.
The restaurant had always been busy right from the outset but when Steve and Stephanos were in the kitchen it was good pub grub and no more because they didn’t have the repertoire to take it to the next level.
However since Steve and Holly had returned from their New Forest honeymoon the previous year with Chef Simon Clarke the restaurant had really taken off.
Simon had been working at the same country house hotel that the Berry’s were staying at as a sous chef for an arrogant sadistic bully.
Now he was a Chef in his own right and Steve and Stephanos had grown as cooks under him.
So this contributed to the general business that night.
It was Christmas Eve and Holly, despite being told to rest by Steve and everybody else was doing her usual walkabout as hostess and as Steve looked at her he sighed because he was so in love with that girl in the maternity dress.

Just like Christmas Eve two years before it was snowing, not as hard, but enough not to want to make any unnecessary journeys.
She had had a twinge or two which she just laughed it off, she said the baby had been really active all day.
“She’s dancing to the Christmas songs” she said to Steve “she really likes the Puppini Sisters”
But by 9 o’clock in the evening it was obvious the twinges were more than Christmas Dancing and she was having contractions.
Luckily Clare Andrews was dining in the restaurant with friends
“Get Doc Andrews” he said to Petra
“Ok” she replied and ran off while Steve and one of the regulars helped Holly in the private room at the back of the bar.

“Where is she?” The doctor asked
“In here” Steve called
Dr Andrews threw her car keys to Petra
“Can you get my bag from the car please?”
“Yes doc” she replied
“Ooooooh” Holly exclaimed through gritted teeth “that was a big one”
After Dr Andrews examined her she said
“She’s definitely in labour”
“I’ll call an ambulance” Steve suggested
“No she’s too far along” Clare said “the baby is going to be born here, and soon”
“I’d be happier if we got her to hospital” Steve said
“So would I” Dr Andrews replied
“But she’ll never make it to the hospital”
“She’s really too close?” Steve asked
“Yes” Clare replied “so under the circumstance, here is going to have to do”
“Upstairs it is then” Steve said “but the first sign of an angel and three wise men and were calling an ambulance”

This was certainly different to previous Christmases’ he thought to himself as Steve looked out the door as he said goodnight to the last customers it was still snowing but still not hard.
He locked the doors and went back to where the staff were sitting, no one wanted to go to bed until the baby had been born.
So they sat around a table in the bar until half past one when Noelle Clare Berry was born.
Trust Holly Berry to have the baby on Christmas Day.

Saturday 21 January 2017

The Girl in the White Silk Dress

(Part One)

When Steve Berry proposed to Holly on Easter Sunday in front of a packed pub it set off an unstoppable chain of events which consumed not just Steve and Holly but everyone around them.
Rather unconventionally, instead of picking a date, or a number of dates, and then checking if the church was free Holly went to see the Reverend Marshall to see what dates he had available.
She was fully expecting St Mary’s to be fully booked right through the summer and she was correct, but as luck would have it there had been a cancellation only that afternoon and September 23rd was free.
It was cutting it a bit fine but she thought it was doable so even without checking with Steve she booked it there and then.

Steve ever the bean counter was supervising the installation of solar panels on the rear aspect roof which would make a significant reduction to their electric bill.
Although in truth supervising was actually just him sitting on the patio looking up at them working while he drank a pint.
The Pig and Whistle was a big pub and as he sat looking up to the roof it was patently obvious that it had once been a hotel.
When he and Holly finally got around to fully exploring the accommodation they were amazed at how many rooms there were.
There were some rooms upstairs that were used as little more than storage space.
In fact there were sufficient rooms for Holly and Steve to have a self-contained apartment and still make four decent size bed sitters.
“They could be a useful additional source of income” Steve suggested
“Not if we offered them to the staff at a reduced rate” Holly suggested
“Hmmm” Steve responded
“Hospitality is not the best paid job in the world” Holly continued “and they’re paying ridiculous rents for a room half the size”
“Agreed then” he said so that was settled they would offer them to the senior staff.
Petra and Ausra jumped at the chance as they were living in a very dodgy street with some very unsavoury neighbours, Stephanos was less keen until he realised it was twice the size for half the rent.
Debbie declined as she was already well fixed up living with her parents rent free and you couldn’t get cheaper than that.
“Save it for when we get a cook” Steph suggested
He and Steve did the food between them
“What do you mean?” Holly said
“I’m a good pub grub man” Steph said “but I’m not a chef”
“What do you think Steve?” Holly asked
“Well we can both cook ok, but our repertoire is limited, what we do, we do well” he replied
“What we need is a “chef” who can take us to the next level and broaden our horizons”
“Well I’ll put that on the list then” Holly said and grinned

Steve was taking a short break before the lunchtime rush while Holly was upstairs trying on her wedding dress.
The date was set for September 23rd at St Mary’s church just down the road.
Followed by the reception at the Pig and Whistle which would keep the cost down.
He was thinking about the guest list, it wasn’t substantial,
There weren’t many family guests on Holly’s side, her parents, if they could be found, and two cousins, and none at all on Steve’s side.
The only relative he had was his father and apart from the fact he didn’t know if he was still alive he didn’t want him there anyway.
One person who would definitely not be there was Uncle Phil who had passed away two months before the wedding.

Up in Holly and Steve’s bedroom she was opening a large flat cardboard box the kind where the lid fitted over the base like a very large jigsaw puzzle box.
She was accompanied by her bridesmaids.
Petra and Ausra were cousins and had come to the Britain from Lithuania, they were the same age as Holly and they had known each other for almost ten years. And the three of them were the best of friends.
When she had the lid off, she cast it aside and unfolded the tissue paper covering the contents.
Holly slipped her hands inside and removed the beautiful white silk wedding dress trimmed with Belgian lace.
“Wow that’s beautiful” Petra said “was it your mamas?
“No” Holly replied and laughed “my parents got married in a registry office and the bride wore denim”
“It’s lovely” Ausra added
“It was my grandmothers” Holly said proudly
And when she tried it on Holly looked stunning.

Steve’s thoughts turned to his best man, six months earlier he wouldn’t have hesitated for a second.
His best friend Graham Chatfield would have been the obvious choice for best man.
But they had fallen out, as it was Graham who had been the most vociferous about him burning his bridges and ruining his life over some “silly tart”.
At the point Graham referred to Holly as a “silly tart” Steve hit him and they hadn’t spoken since.
Which meant the obvious candidate was now Stephanos who he hadn’t got around to asking yet.
He went back into the kitchen
“Steph!” he called “I need a best man”
“Of course you do” he replied
“And you’re it” Steve said
“Cool” Steph responded
So that was settled.

Having returned the wedding dress to its box and safely hidden it from Steve’s prying eyes her thought returned to the day itself.
The wedding breakfast was problematic as the cooks were also the Groom and Best man and the waitresses were the bridesmaids.
Of course it was easy enough to get outside caterers for the day, Holly had enough contacts in the business to get someone that would do a good job and at a reasonable price.
It wasn’t in their budget but it looked like they didn’t really have a choice.
The other thing they couldn’t really afford to take was a honeymoon, in terms of time away from the pub and financially.
But their staff ganged up on them and insisted they go, if only for a day or two.
They could quite easily manage while they were away, so they agreed on a short break in the New Forest, a B&B would keep it affordable.

(Part Two)

A few weeks ahead of the big day Holly and Steve were in the apartment eating breakfast and going through the mail.
“I’m a bit worried Steve” she said
“What about?” he asked
“The wedding” she replied
“Why? Have we forgotten something?” Steve said
“No everything’s arranged, everything’s booked” Holly confirmed “Apart from my parents”
“So what’s the matter?” Steve asked puzzled
“The cost” she said “it’s twice as much as we budgeted for”
“That’s because we budgeted next to nothing” he corrected her
“I’m still worried” she said stubbornly
“Well maybe this will set your mind at rest” Steve said and handed her a solicitor’s letter.
It was from Uncle Phil’s solicitor detailing a bequest and a cheque for the stated amount.
“That should cover it” Steve said and stood up, he walked around the table and kissed the top of her head
“Now you can get back to worrying about whether I’m going to turn up or not” He said and left the room whistling
“What do you mean?” Holly said rushing after him

The week of the wedding was a little tense as Holly still hadn’t heard from her hippie parents.
She had left messages at their various stopping off points and with friends she knew they were regularly in touch with but had heard nothing back.
Also during that week were the Hen night and Stag do though neither of them were reckless exhibitionists so strippers and silly stunts were never on the cards.
On Wednesday night the boys when out for a meal and a few drinks while the girls held the fort and the following night they swapped.
On Friday night Steve took Holly out for a romantic dinner and after delivering her home he went across the road to the Abbeyvale Court Hotel for the night.

Saturday arrived and Holly got ready at the pub while Steve dressed at the Hotel which would serve as his abode for his last night as a single man and his first as a married one, albeit in a different room for the nuptials.
The morning was very relaxed, he took a leisurely bath and performed his ablutions but by lunch time when Steph arrived with his suit and shoes etc. the nerves had set in and the joke he made to Holly about not turning up was suddenly ringing hollow, what if she didn’t turn up?

Holly despite having been a wreck all week was calmness personified, and she had resolved to enjoy and savour every moment of their special day.
It was everyone else who were all at sixes and sevens.
But she managed to impress her calmness on everyone around her and they got through the morning unscathed.

Steve was sat at the front of the church with Stephanos and his stomach was doing somersaults.
“Have you got the ring?” he said
“Yes” Stephonos said “but if you ask me again I’m going to throw it out of the window”
“Sorry” he said “Nerves”

When they had arrived the Reverend Marshall had said
“Just sit down and relax, when it’s time I will walk past and touch your shoulder and that’s your cue. Ok?”
Steve just nodded
After about five minutes he heard the Vicars footsteps and then felt his hand on his shoulder which was his cue to get to his feet
“It’s alright I’m only kidding” he said “she’s not here yet”
Steve could have killed him at the time, but it actually stopped his stomach it its tracks.

The Vicar was on the dais when he caught Steve’s eye and nodded and the bridal march began.
Steve and Steph got to their feet.
“This is it man” Steph said “now where’s that ring”
Steve just gave him a sideways glance.
He could hear Holly processing up the aisle and he was desperate to turn around and look at her, but he daren’t, he thought his legs would give way under him if he saw her.
Then he could see her in his peripheral vision, a splash of white.
Steve stepped to his left to join her and took a deep breath before he turned to look at her.
And there she was standing before him, a vision of loveliness, in a dress of antique white silk.
“You look beautiful” he whispered
Holly smiled and giggled
Then as they faced each other there was a crash at the back of the church and without taking their eyes off each other they said in unison
“The hippies”
Then after a second or two they both turned to look at a middle aged couple at the back of the church, Steve had no idea who they were but when Holly squeezed his hand he knew it was her parents.

On Sunday morning Mr and Mrs Berry left for their honeymoon in the New Forest, not however bound for a B&B but courtesy of Uncle Phil’s bequest, to a Country House Hotel.
And when they returned a week later they brought with them a new chef.